In honor of Mother's Day (a day late), I figured I'd write a post on the beauty of a mother. Though I have not yet experienced motherhood, in a lot of ways, I've logged more hours with children (ranging from the age of 7 days old throughout the teenage years), than some mothers. I have not yet carried around a child for 9 months and birthed it into this world, but I can relate to motherhood on many levels throughout my experiences thus far.
Motherhood. What is the beauty of a mother? One of the many amazing things about mothers is their ability to live each day...over and over and over {with a servant's heart}. Have you ever sat for a minute and considered a 'day in the life' of a mom? Let's just consider ONE morning...Depending on the age of her child[ren] it probably goes a lot like this.
Wake up early before the rest of the home starts to stir.
Stumble downstairs.
Make coffee.
Unload the dishwasher.
Have one sip of coffee; place it down.
Feed the dog.
Wake up kids.
Running around trying to get kids dressed, fed breakfast and given lunches.
Get frustrated with kids because they are moving slow and are going to be late.
Get kids out the door.
Reheat coffee.
Take one sip of coffee; place it down.
Put dirty dishes in dishwasher, clean up kitchen.
Run dishwasher.
Reheat coffee.
Take another sip; place it down.
Throw a load of laundry in.
By this time? Oh....it's probably 7:30 am.
Mothers are simply amazing. Have you realized how they are constantly serving? Their children, husband, friends, and others....It's a wonder everyone in the house is typically showered, dressed, and the mom is the one sporting yoga-pants and 3 day old hair. Family first, yourself second - that's the true motto of a mother.
She wakes up and goes through her day that inevitably, looks a lot like the day before, and what tomorrow will look like as well. The dishes are done 3-5 times a day. The laundry piles up and even when it's all washed, dried, folded and put away, the mound is heaping again by the end of the day. Meals happen to roll around 3 times a day and she makes, serves, and cleans up after each one. She is a constant taxi driver; driving to and from school, after school activities, friends houses, and not to mention the "regular" errands that go into making a house a home - such as the grocery store. She is a maid; constantly cleaning her house that just gets trashed over and over again. After this, and so much more, the life a mother is living each day, over and over, with constantly having everything you've worked on, 'undone' in a sense. The laundry, the dishes, the clean house, the homework, the driving. Once it's 'done', it just starts all over. Daily. Weekly. Monthly. And sure enough, year after year.
Hats off to all of the mothers out there. Especially my own. Thank you, mom, for constantly loving our family and more importantly raising us to love Jesus. THAT in itself is the greatest gift you could ever bless us with. And thank you to my precious mother-in-law for raising your son to be the man of my dreams. For raising HIM to love and serve Jesus first and foremost for that is the greatest blessing in our marriage. Two wonderful mothers, I have.
Thanks for walking with us,
JL